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Ungagged Episode 11 – Doms and Daddy’s and Bears Oh My

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The puppies are back! Stand back, kids, cause things are about ready to get crazy!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Today’s game: Would you Rather? – Time to find out what horrible choices the puppies would make!
  • Daddy Hunting – How do you find a daddy?
  • Protocol and setting boundaries
  • Mikey is a Wuss! (that’s on the internet now)
  • First Time Meet ups
  • The awfulness known as “Writing a Profile”
  • The kinds of photos that you can post!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Chomp Gag.

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Episode 178 – Kinky Boots

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Daddy Tony and Sparky talk with Pup Jimmy all about erotic bootblacking!  Ever wondered what goes on inside a bootblacker’s brain?  We ask Pup Jimmy all about his approach to all things boots, from licking to caring for them.  Ever wondered how much to tip a bootblack?  What you can expect when you go for your first bootblacking?  Find out why getting your boots done can be better than a day at the spa!

Show Notes

Douchepickle of the Week

  • Target Bathroom Lady – it’s the Honey-Boo-Boo version of the Sound of Music.  Baroness von Cunt marches all of the von Cunt children over to the local Target to sing a song about perverts peeing in bathrooms.

In the News

Topics

  • How Pup Jimmy Got His Start in Erotic Bootblacking
  • Walking Through a Typical Bootblacking Experience
  • FAQ on BB  – From Tipping to Etiquette
  • Differences Between Erotic and Non-Erotic Bootblacking
  • How to Get Started in Bootblacking
  • Secrets of Bootblacking – Things They Don’t Want You To Know!

About Our Guest

Pup Jimmy is an Atlanta boot black and puppy. He boot blacks for fun and tips, but gives friends special treatment. It’s not always about the boots for him but uses it as a way to connect with and take care of the community. He’s easy to find around Atlanta, book blacking once a week at a local leather shop and at the Eagle on occasion. If you see him around, give him some scrtiches and he’ll give your boots some love

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Carbon-Fiber Pain Stick!

Mr. S Leather — Carbon Fiber Pain Stick — $22.95

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Episode 180 – Like a Fine Wine…

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Our good friend Kinkidiver is back and here to talk about how sometimes experience, knowledge, and history can be some of the sexiest features you’ll ever find in a guy, especially when it comes to BDSM!  Sparky, Daddy Tony, and Jeff tackle the topics of agism, what older gentlemen have to offer, and why being a hot young twink isn’t always everything!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Older guys do tend to have more experience and knowledge!
  • Many are experienced in mentoring – but some want to play too!
  • Body image and how to handle getting older
  • Experience-hunters
  • Dealing with energy levels and getting older

About our Guest

Kinkidiver has been happily tying guys up (and getting tied up himself) for many years. One of the NoSafeWord crew has known him for 18 years. He loves bondage, rubber, leather, and sports gear and is an all-around perv. Just our type!  You can find him as kinkidiver on Recon.  Kinkidiver was also on Episode 62.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Vector Ultra-Padded Straightjacket.

Mr. S Leather — Vector Ultra-Padded Straitjacket

We’re really excited about our new Vector Ultra-Padded Straitjacket. After months of testing and design updates we’re ecstatic with the end result.

This piece comes with full body padding in the front and back. The padding also extends to the arms and hands. With this extra cushioning your joints are well covered so you can stay in this comfortably for a long time.

This new design has a more fitted body so you’re going to look amazing in it too. We’ve also made the cockstraps much more comfortable. From the back it fits like your favorite jock would! Velcro closure at the back allows you to hold the straitjacket in place as you cinch it on your boy.

We’ve included numerous D-rings along the sides so you’ve got a lot of great tie down points. Just like our Deluxe Straitjacket this comes with an arms down option that allows you to use it like a sleepsack. Six belts lets you get your boy in just the right position for this feature. These same belts allows you to lock his arms back along with the pinion strap.

Bondage meets sexy in this hot new piece. Made right in the heart of SF by our devious production team. Come see it at IML this weekend and see why this may be one of the best straitjackets out there!

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Episode 181 – We stand with Orlando

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We here at the NoSafeWord Podcast decided that we would deviate from our normal format for the show in light of the horrific tragedy that happened in Orlando last night. The entire LGBT community today was the victim of terror, and the Orlando community itself is dealing with the terrible aftermath of this unconscionable act. We wanted to take a moment to share our thoughts and lend a voice of support to all our brothers & sisters out there during this difficult time.

We mentioned numerous articles and petitions on the show that we are providing to you now in the hopes that you will find them useful as well as give you the opportunity to lend your voice to the causes that may need your support as we wrestle with very difficult political questions this incident raises.

We love you and our community, and hope we all can heal together.

 

  • In the News
  •  Interesting quotes
    • Dan Savage tweeted: Stonewall 1969: cops rush into gay bar to arrest patrons. Pulse 2016: cops rush into gay bar to save patrons.
    • PerroMutt: It’s important to not let extreme fundamentalists dictate your life. Be yourself. Be in control #Pride
    • John Aravosis: I’d like someone to ask Cruz and Huckabee about the rally they attended not 6 months ago, where pastor called for gays to be put to death
    • Mary Bruce: This will be the 18th time Obama has delivered a statement following a mass shooting during his presidency.
    • Mike Huckabee: Please join Janet and me in praying for the victims of the Orlando attack and their families.

 

 

 

 

Ungagged Episode 12 – Old Guard vs. New – Our Journeys

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The puppies today have decided to talk about their personal perspectives about the different between Old Guard and New Guard. Now I know, another Old Guard versus New Guard, that has been done! But not like this, because they really focus on their own journey and how they have to come to find their place in the spectrum of guard (trademark).

You are going to find this to be a really great episode with some fun personal stories!

Show Notes

Topics

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Scream Hood.

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Episode 182 – Pride Match Game

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One of the ways in which we carry our message, which is all about making sure the fun is in our kink, is to stop for a moment and do something out-of-the-box. Well today, we forego the normal kink topics and do a show featuring a game of matching (cause I guess we shouldn’t call it the other thing or get into trouble). We had a BBQ of friends and asked a few to jump on the show with us to play our game.

I think that you are going to find it was a damn good time!

Happy Pride Month, everyone. We love you!

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Rigid Collar & Cuffs.

Mr. S Leather — Fetters Strap Face Cage

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Episode 183 – Piss Play

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The indomitable Pup Nitro joins us in the shower this week for an episode answering your questions on piss play. Get wet with us on this episode and prepare to guzzle down some knowledge!

Show Notes

Topics

About our Guest

Bryson “Pup Nitro” Hankinson
International Leatherboy 2011

In 2006, he moved to Atlanta where he met Sir Alan Penrod and began to discover his “Leather Heart”.  Nearly a year later he earned his collar and was given his pup name, “NITRO” (Needs Intense Torture to Reach Orgasm).  Nitro is currently the President of Panther L/L, and is a Co-Founder of the Hotlanta Rubber and Gear Club. He is the co-owner of Southeast Black and Blue, LLC, and co-producer of Atlanta Leather Pride. He has held the titles of Mr. Hotlanta Rubber 2008, Southeast Leatherboy 2011, and International Leatherboy 2011. Nitro teaches BDSM and Leather Lifestyle classes on a variety of topics and enjoys any play involving tight bondage, mummification, rubber/latex, electricity, cbt, and watersports. He also serves as a mentor to other boys, helping them find their voice within our beautifully diverse leather community.

Nitro has been with us a whole lot before, in Episode 138, Episode 130Episode 98, Episode 80Episode 62, and Episode 10.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Daddy’s Belt!

Mr. S Leather — Daddy’s Belt — $62.95

 

Episode 184 – Listening to the Listeners

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Daddy Tony and Sparky open up the mailbag this week to talk about your listener letters!  After busting a load to the dick pics sent in by our awesome listeners, Sparky and Daddy get around to answering your questions about everything from rubber gear, loud sex, and some awesome throwbacks to some earlier episodes!

Show Notes

In the News

Topic – Listener Letters!

  • Is there non-latex rubber gear?
  • CAN you be as loud as the hell you want when you’re making love?!
  • What does undetectable actually mean and does that mean unsafe sex is OK?
  • OMG, we’ve been discovered!!  It’s happening for us!!
  • Dealing with body changes and rocking your own energy! (and you owe us a dick pic, Trekboy008!)

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the The Handler Collar and Gag!.

Mr. S Leather — The Handler Collar & Gag

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Ungagged Episode 13 – Flipbook Families

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Show Notes

Topics

  • General Kink Trivia Game
    • Damien versus Drew
  • Managing Poly Relationships
    • Why would you want to go poly
    • Creating new experiences
    • What are the challenges of a poly relationship
      • Communication
      • Roles & Labels
      • Moods
    • Monogomy and jealousy
    • Adding new people to the Polycule
    • Removing people from the Polycule

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Howler Muzzle Light Gray.

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Episode 185 – YesSafeWord

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It’s opposite day!  Today the NoSafeWord crew discusses all things safeword related, from how we came up with the name of the show, what our favorites are, when to use them, and why they are important!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Safe Word doesn’t mean ‘go to town’
  • Not inherently good or bad – they just ‘are’
  • Daddy: Goal is to not need the safeword
  • Sparky: Uses communication as the main method
  • Why named the show ‘NoSafeWord’?
    • Get to the point where you don’t need to have one.
    • Enough education, enough knowledge, enough communication
    • Sometimes you can’t say the safeword…
  • Sometimes even in relationships – may need for new stuff…
  • Mikey is a tight ass.  Great butt.  Huuge.  I have the best butt, everyone says so.
  • May help for new people – feel more safe, secure.
  • Don’t want to disappoint top – may not even use it as unsure of what will happen
  • Communication early is important – and keeping communication going during is Sparky’s approach.
  • Some tops get very intense, safewords are very important in those types of scenes.
    • If Sparky was going to get whipped, he would definitely want a safeword.
      • Daddy won’t give him one if he does it.
  • Meeting a stranger?  Good time to have a safeword agreed upon.  Dialog and communication in new relationships is very important and will only make for a better experience for everyone involved :)
  • Every not a great idea?
    • Sparky: Safeword was requested, he specifically denied.  This is why: Sparky had to specifically draw everything out of him, wanted to try new things in scene and get immediate results from the sub.
    • Used as a ‘shield’ sometimes – I won’t every do anything without a safeword – make sure you aren’t crazy.
  • Keep in mind, a safe word is not magic – if a top wants to do harm, he can.
  • LPT: tie down the feet to make it harder for the sub to cum
  • Favorite safewords:
    • Rootabega – neighbor was getting things stuck up his butt, and had to guess the item
    • Green/Yellow/Red – standard, though green light doesn’t need to be said, could mean go harder though
  • Some tops – red light is the goal
  • Sparky: one safeword he used was ‘Take me to the fucking airport right now’
  • Electro isn’t for every top…
  • Idea behind safeword is something that is uncommon – don’t use common words
    • ‘Blood’
    • ‘Supercalifragilisticexpilallidocious’
    • ‘No’, ‘Stop’, Aaaaa’, etc.  No is not is safeword.
  • Safewords have a place – but do not replace communication, don’t think this is a shortcut for talking with a top on what you are into, what you can/can’t do, and what you are interested in and why.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fetters Strap Face Cage.

Mr. S Leather — Fetters Strap Face Cage

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Ungagged Episode 14 – The Third Hole

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Ever heard the term Sounding and not know what it was? Now is the time to find out! The puppies are going to talk about Pee Hole Stuffing. What are the risks and how do you do it safely, and how to do you have a fun time with it. So crab a pipe cleaner, stuff yourself and listen up!

(the NoSafeWord legal department wants to remind everyone, don’t stuff a pipe cleaner up your dick hole. Not a good idea. The person writing this shit has lost his mind)

Show Notes

Topics

  • Follow up on the pup headspace discussion that was discussed on the show we did called Episode 175: Pup Identity
  • Pee Hole Stuffing!
    • Mikey has only done it a few time, Brutus however…
    • What is sounding?
    • Why is it fun?
    • Potential risks
    • What kind of sounds should you work with?
    • Penis Sphincters!
    • Catheter play?
    • Do Not Lose the Count!
    • Remember, there are risk involved, just like everything. Be careful, and have fun with it!

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Manetic Ball Stretcher .

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Episode 186 – Bootblack Dream Team

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We talk to Erick and Meghan today about their leather journeys. We answer what bootblacking is all about. Talk about the energy exchange of bootblacking. Its our first show back from the recording break people… please bear with us…

Show Notes

Topics

  • We’re back!!
  • Sparky got laid in Orlando and doesn’t want to talk about it
  • Michigan’s sexual education event Sinergymi
  • Our guests personal bootblack journeys
  • Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles
  • Bootblacks status in the leather contest circuit
  • Things degrade quickly

About Our Guests

Erick Joseph, International Mr. Bootblack 2016

Meghan Bootblack, International Ms. Bootblack 2016

 

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Electro Cock Cage 2.0.

Electro Cock Cage

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Episode 187 – It’s Whatever The Fuck You Want

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In The Audience!

Russ and Will
Brutus
Bndgkid
Damien

Show Notes

Listener Letter! Newbie in Chicago!

In the News

Topic – Platitudes and Kink

  • Prime directive – non-interference policy.
  • Separating online fantasy from reality.
  • Revisiting collar etiquette.
  • Emotions!  Structure in a very unstructured world.
  • Ebbs and flows – the community is not “dying”
  • HBO presents fucking Donald Trump with a barb-wire strap-on.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode is sponsored by Mr. S Leather in San Francisco:

For this episode, we feature:

Adjustable Steel Spreader Bar

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Episode 188 – It’s whatever the fuck you want! Part 2

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Ever wonder why some people just automatically grab your butt when they first meet you?  What’s cool and not cool when it comes to assuming what people are into?  Sparky and Daddy talk all about perceptions of kink, and how to check your ass-umptons at the door!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Assumptions of kink!  Just cause I like A doesn’t mean I like B and C
  • Just because I am into being treated rough, doesn’t mean I want to be treated rough by you.
  • Similarly just because I am into something, doesn’t mean I am into it right now (flogging, piss play)
  • People who aere into chastity are much more gung-ho about chastity than those who are not into chastity (Bandwagon Fallacy)
  • Experience doesn’t trump facts.  It’s possible for a top to have been doing it wrong for a long time.
  • Because bad things happen to good people, doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun if you take precautions and educate yourself. Don’t be afraid of the boogie man
  • Don’t assume that because a person got off a certain way means they are going to every time. What you did to get them off may not be what they got off on.
  • Personal incredulity – Your own personal dislike or disgust to another’s kink isn’t really relevant on how the kink is a good choice for them or not. The only measure should be if  it is safe and doesn’t harm others.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Deluxe Mr. S Ball Gag.

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Ungagged Episode 15 – Headspace Healing

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Our mad scientist puppies have been up to a lot of projects, and thinking about so much more, using the very latest technologies, like 3d printing and VR. They are always researching the latest things that they can come up with create even better bondage scenes!

Show Notes

Topics

  • Talking about future tech and kink!
    • NovaPro Glasses
    • Estim/ErosTek
    • VR
    • Dating Apps
    • Crowd Funding
  • Bad Scenes
    • Every situation is unique
    • Headspace problems
    • Abuse problems
    • Anticipation of failure versus success
    • Comfort versus communication
    • Frustration and emotion in scene
      • Top down frustration
      • sub up frustration

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Leather Bar Vest .

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Episode 189 – So Campy

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Episode 190 – Cum Unity

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This show is on Fyre – MoonFyre that is!  Kinky coffee shop and dungeon owner Mistress PixieFyre is here with Sparky and Daddy Tony to talk all about being in this kah-razy cum-unity that we love!

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Tribe of sexual beings
    • Balance between work/support and the play that we do
    • We work hard and we play hard
  • What is community?
    • Who are they and who are they not?
  • Continuity of tradition
    • While allowing for new traditions
  • When real life happens
    • Survival Mode!
  • How to get into a community from the outside
  • Are online communities real?

About Our Guests

  • Mistress Pixie Fyre is the Owner and Founder of the well known House of Fyre based in Portland, Oregon. After over a decade of work as a Victim’s Advocate, her skills as an educator and speaker have become as well known as her House. When not hosting Fetish Events or teaching workshops, she proudly and openly shares her experiences and skills with her local community commonly focused on Protocol and “newbie” training for those new to the BDSM lifestyle.Mistress Pixie provides an abundance of resources to those around her and believes in making her community stronger through education and advocacy. Her passion for BDSM, pet play and Power Exchange relationships are as dynamic as her interactive classes and she prides herself in her Community work. While often called “Hell in High Heels,” she embodies laughter and joy not often found in FemDommes.She hosts a monthly workshop each month, which can be found at houseoffyre.com/store and has been a welcomed presenter for the Portland Leather Alliance, KinkFest, the BDSM Writer’s Convention, the PDX League of Gentleman, International Puppy Contest and many more.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Mr. S Leather — Electro Butt Club by MyStim. – $199.95

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Episode 191 – Semper Fido

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Today we talk to the illustrious and amazing Pup Scuff Northwest Puppy 2017 and International Puppy of the year 2016. We explore his approach to pup-play and inspiring kink journey overcoming deep life challenges. We discuss how to approach the puppy community for newbies.

Show Notes

In the News

Topics

  • Poop Horoscopes
  • Overcoming life challenges
  • Balancing life and kink
  • Finding your place in the community

About Our Guests

Skuff Pup is an Arkansas native who moved to Seattle 7 years ago after an 11 year career as an active Marine. He started his kink journey within the ab/Dl community over 15 years ago. This led him to the furry fandom which ultimately found its way to the pup and leather communities.

Skuff has been active within the leather and pup community in Seattle for many years, and became a part of the board for SEA-PAH two years ago, and is currently the Puppy relations for SEA-PAH.

Skuff is the 2016 international Puppy of the year and the 2017 Northwest Puppy title holder.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the FuckGear Chaps

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Ungagged Episode 16 – Far Away Play

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The Puppies are back again with another episode to help all you kinksters out there! This time they are tackling the subject of long distance relationships. Let’s face it, it is a real challenge sometimes to find the person that is going to match all your kinks. There are a great many of us out there that rely on having a relationship is our play buddies, friends, and collared partners over longer and longer distances.

Having an online relationship is can be a challenge for anyone, but rewarding at the same time. The puppies talk about some ways to deal with having a long distance relationship as well as some ways to ensure it is healthy for both of you.

 

Show Notes

Topics

  • It’s back, kids, that’s right it is time for THE BEST OF CRAIGLIST
  • Long Distance Relationships
    • Distance is a relative term
    • Actual Relationships online
    • Expectations and Fantasy V. Reality
    • Experiences as a gay
    • Experiences as a boy
    • Experiences as a Sir
    • Over vs. under communication
    • Types of orders
    • Communication without exaggeration
    • Pro/Cons

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Fuckgear Racer Vest .

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Episode 192 – Right Brain, Left Ball

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Creativity and stuff!  Sparky and Daddy Tony chat up our guests Brutus and K0mpy all about being creative, from getting started to finding continuing inspiration, learn about how these two creative pups come up with awesome home-solutions to common kinkster problems, and how they break down challenges!

Show Notes

News

Topic: Creativity

  • Different types of creativity – play is absolutely included!
  • Improvisation, adaptabality, and finding solutions
  • You are creative, learn to embrace it!
  • Copying isn’t always a bad thing

About our Guests
Brutus: @thatdrewlion
K0mpy: @k0mpy

About Kompy: Starting in the Minneapolis kink and party scenes, K0mpy Dog found his way into puppy through the furry community. He frequently returns to the mid-west to support events and spread the good word of pup.

In Seattle, K0mpy brings his experience as a promoter, programmer, and art major to the SEAPAH board of directors. In his free time, he is an amateur latex clothing designer and photographer.

Sponsor

Mr. S Leather Co.

This episode sponsored by: Mr. S Leather. For this episode we feature the Patrol Gloves!

You’re not in head to toe leather without a good pair of leather gloves. These smooth finish Leather Patrol Gloves are meant to fit tight. Made from .45mm ultra-thin Cabretta Leather to ensure a snug, smooth fit while providing an exceptional grip and maximum dexterity. Not only do they look good but they allow you to do pretty much anything you can do without gloves on. Plus, when your boy sees you in these he’ll be begging you to use him. Patrol-Gloves-G004-6

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